Q: Who is supposed to give toasts at the rehearsal dinner? And what about the reception?
A: It really is who ever the bride and groom wants to give a toast, but the best rule of thumb is that the first toast is always given by the person who is hosting the event.
Rehearsal Dinner: The Groom's father, who is usually the host, stands up first. Then the best man and the maid of honor. Sometimes, each of the bridesmaids and groomsmen are asked to say something that night as well, or they present together. This is where opening the floor up to everyone can get out of hand, so make sure to communicate that to everyone.
Reception: The Bride's father, who is usually the host, gives the first toast. After that, it depends on if the MOH and BM want to give a toast. In my opinion (although it's up to the B&G) you keep these short and sweet with the fewer people the better, because guests want to get back to the reception.
Talk to each member of the wedding party first and give them the guidelines of who will be speaking. It's best to communicate that so you don't have what is thought of as an open floor for people to go on and on with speeches.
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